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12489. TheWizardOfWhimsy - 12/3/2004 10:07:33 PM

I'm not sure now where I was going with this. I'll have to post, then see if it still makes sense and if I had any actual point to make. ;->

Loved that!

12490. thoughtful - 12/3/2004 10:23:20 PM

Yes i suppose, from a woman's POV it's the intimate nature of the exchange even if virtual...and yet I can see the husband justifing his behavior as "just fantasy" like writing fiction or something. Reminded of the governator's line, "eatin' ain't cheatin'".

Then there is always the escalation potential. Of course I'd crack up if the woman on the other end turns out to be an 80 yr old hag!

I remember one time reading an article where they interviewed these women who were paid phone sex ladies, and believe me, they looked NOTHING like the gals in the pin ups.

12491. Magoseph - 12/3/2004 10:34:49 PM

Is this a legitimate fear on the husband's part or do you think that perhaps he just doesn't want to admit to anyone that he's been caught?

I think that it is both. His family is well known in their area and the business he inherited depends on the good will of the local people. She just called me to say her parents will take the children over Christmas vacation, she will take a leave of absence from her job, and they will go away somewhere and try first to iron the problems on their own before they seek professional help.

12492. Magoseph - 12/3/2004 10:36:05 PM

I remember one time reading an article where they interviewed these women who were paid phone sex ladies, and believe me, they looked NOTHING like the gals in the pin ups.

All that these women need is a sexy voice.

12493. iiibbb - 12/3/2004 10:49:06 PM

FREEBIRD!!

12494. Magoseph - 12/3/2004 10:50:43 PM

My husband told me yesterday, after I related my adventures with the vehicles I drove and the cyber-sex story, that I have a genius in finding myself in the middle of things. I answered, “What are you saying? I came here to live in your house, next door to the woman who had to be driven to the hospital and it was a relative of yours who misbehaved.

12495. thoughtful - 12/3/2004 11:15:16 PM

that's a QED, mags...you put yourself in the middle by marrying him!

;-)

12496. arkymalarky - 12/4/2004 1:48:03 AM

3i3b,

What in the sam hill is that about?

12497. judithathome - 12/4/2004 8:20:58 PM

Hey, y'all...wish everyone could join us today at the studio of this glass artist and his partner, who is a potter. We have several of her pieces and plan to buy one of the glass things today. It's an open house all day and into the night and is being catered by a Cajun chef from New Orleans. Their studio and house are on a cliff overlooking the lake...nice people, great fun day ahead!

12498. judithathome - 12/5/2004 6:22:27 AM

The party was great! And so was dinner with 7 friends after it.

12499. arkymalarky - 12/5/2004 7:01:50 AM

Sounds wonderful, Judith.

I'm tied to this paper until Christmas. I didn't even go to Old Washington today like I'd planned.

Maybe next year.

12500. Ulgine Barrows - 12/5/2004 10:00:35 AM

That does sound like an excellent evening.

WHIPPING POST!

12501. Magoseph - 12/5/2004 6:03:45 PM

How long did you stay at the party, Judsie? Di you have a nice time?

Hi, Ulgine, are you ready for Christmas?

What kind of paper are you writing, Arky?

Chilly and dark here, everyone is huddling home, I think. I saw no one on my walk to town and back this morning, not even the usual Sunday morning traffic.

12502. judithathome - 12/5/2004 6:13:48 PM

We stayed from 4 til 6, then went out to eat with friends.

Going again today...the play and dinner out. It's a good thing I work out three times a week!

12503. arkymalarky - 12/5/2004 6:51:28 PM

It's a lengthy white paper (30 pages or so) on the recent education reforms in AR that's supposed to go to the publisher the day after Christmas. It's very comprehensive and has involved months of research, reading legislation and studies, and data analysis. I've written about half and am preparing to write the rest. I've read most of the material and am now rereading and tagging what I'm using in the paper in preparation to flesh out the rest of it. The subdivisions are already in place and I have to write those I haven't already written and annotate the whole thing.

12504. alistairconnor - 12/6/2004 6:26:23 PM

Spelling test.

24. Bitterly disappointed.

(dissapointed?)

12505. Ms. No - 12/6/2004 7:04:40 PM

SIMPLE MAN!

25/25 and the last time I got accused of reading the dictionary I was in the 8th grade. Oddly, even now the implication rankles however pleased I am to have scored well.

12506. Ms. No - 12/6/2004 7:05:11 PM

Uh, that was a two part post. The ALLCAPS were for iiibbb and Ulgine.

12507. PelleNilsson - 12/6/2004 7:06:01 PM

23. But one of the errors was a word I have never seen before and which is not listed in Merriam-Webster.

12508. Macnas - 12/6/2004 7:29:38 PM

22 for me.

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