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618. Angel-Five - 2/7/2000 9:09:12 AM

As long as we're going to talk about multiple IDs:

The fact of the matter is that multiple anonymous logins are just like any other tool of online debate -- they can be useful and they can be abusive. They can be useful, ironically, for the very reason you mention.

This forum and others like it have proven that in the absence of hard data about a poster, many people will look at their post and immediately jump to many conclusions about the poster, most of which will be false. Some folks here will jump after seeing just a couple of posts from a newbie -- we've all seen that happen. But for the most part, a brand new name carries with it some of what you're talking about -- most Motiers willing to talk to a newbie will treat them differently and perhaps make fewer assumptions than they would someone else they know well who says the same thing. This is a basic axiom of communication.

So having a multiple ID can sort of purify the conversation you participate in, precisely because there's fewer assumptions and baggage built up. It's often a good way to get an interesting conversation going and it skips a lot of roadblocks. Many people here have positions so entrenched that they're constrained as to what they can say and be taken seriously by the rest of us, and many people here can't say things without being attacked simply because it's them doing the speaking. For many people here, including some of the 24/7ers who are very vocal, it doesn't seem to matter what's right or wrong as much as who's saying it and who's defending it. That can be a lot of bullshit to wade through, and running a multiple ID can allow you to neatly sidestep all that crap. So there's something to your premise of anonymity, you see.

619. Angel-Five - 2/7/2000 9:11:00 AM

How do I know this? Well, I've done false IDs. Two here. Both were one-shot deals intended to provoke discussions, the passwords of which I have long since forgotten. One was even initiated after the ban on webmail addresses, FWIW. And I did what I wanted to -- I conversed about things without a lot of the extraneous bullshit that tends to jump up otherwise, and people agreed with me who otherwise would rather chop off a finger than be civil and honest with me under this name.

So why don't I agree with you overall about anonymity in this format allowing cleaner debate? It's simple, Indiana. This isn't anonymity in the sense you want it to be. Whether or not you run under a bullshit ID and refuse to share any personal information out of some morbid fear of someone calling you to account for your asshole antics (that's the generic 'you', not you in particular, Indiana) people here craft a persona for you based on what you say and how you act. That is a simple, fundamental law of communication. And many people will invest a lot more of that kind of baggage in the people they communicate with simply because those people exhibit such a morbid fear of anyone finding out their personal information than they would for someone like Jay Ackroyd.

And that, too, is a simple law, of human nature. People are curious and they don't like not knowing the answers to some questions, and it's natural to want to know who you're conversing with. And when humans don't have good answers, they make up bad ones. Ask Biener if anyone's made outlandish assumptions about his ethnicity or his background. Ask Pseudoerasmus, he of the cult of personality, if there's a massive artificial construct of false Motier perception that follows him around wherever he posts.

620. Angel-Five - 2/7/2000 9:11:34 AM

Hell, ask me.

People have guessed ages for me that span several score of years, backgrounds that span several countries (PE, early on, told me that I must be a Brit because I used metrics) careers that run the gamut of possibility, creeds that make me wince (someone once accused me of being a frickin' Baptist), practices that make me roll my eyes (Jenerator once insinuated that I was gay and later she accused me of being a Druid I believe), and appearances that make me chuckle (apparently the delectable Diva pictured me as her nervous balding 5'10' ex husband). I've had people tell me I defend nuclear power because it's my career, I've had people suggest that I'm a cokehead because I post so fast and favor legalization, I've had people tell me that I have a vested interest in secular thought because I'm possessed by a frickin' demon. I've lost track of the number of ad hominem arguments leveled against me because I'm obviously a Democrat since I don't like the Republican agenda. I've lost track of when exactly I lost track of the number of times people have dismissed me as some kind of Ivory Tower academic who has no real-world experience, but it was a while back. This sort of misinformation tends to hamper good communication, wouldn't you agree?

All this because this is an anonymous forum. So, Indiana, tell me, where's the real stumbling block to unbiased communication? What we could know if we were transparent, or what we don't know because we aren't?

621. Angel-Five - 2/7/2000 9:19:38 AM

I said (and I clarified again) that an
anonymous statement would not be prejudiced by a
reaction to the writer (and used the example of ad
hominem).

Not quite. What you said was

In fact, I think words are worth more when you have no
idea who wrote them, as they are evaluated entirely on
their own merits.

If words are evaluated entirely on their own merits, then there is no room for bias. This is common logic, Indiana, which is why I asked you if that is truly what you meant. It appears now, judging from your last posts, that it isn't in fact what you meant, as you now allow that some bias will be introduced. I posted the last series before seeing your last statements, but by happy happenstance the two statements dovetail nicely.

FWIW, I don't have a real problem with limiting logins to one per person, although it can't be done in reality. The effort to do so will weed out a lot of crap. Although I think false IDs have their uses, they as I said can be pretty damaging to a community. I should know. I was one once such damaging ID, in the bad old place, something that I really can't be excused for in total despite some mitigating circumstances. I think that although false IDs are neutral, their use in general is overall a detriment to the community.

622. Indiana Jones - 2/7/2000 9:25:23 AM

Fuck it. If you prefer to state my position and then argue with what you've decided it is rather than what I say it is, enjoy yourself.

I also recall from the abortion debate that the length of your posts varies as the square of the number of posts exchanged, so I'll respond only to this:

"I don't have a real problem with limiting logins to one per person, although it can't be done in reality."

Square this statement with your position that the mote should require "real" IDs.

623. Angel-Five - 2/7/2000 9:58:51 AM

If you prefer to state my position and then argue
with what you've decided it is rather than what I say it
is, enjoy yourself.

Yet what I'm doing is instead asking you if that's what you meant. What you've said is a matter of record and if you can't argue with the obvious meaning, fine -- but it's easy to misspeak, which is why I asked you if it was your intent to communicate what you did in fact communicate. If doing so is going to get you into a tizzy, Indiana, then by all means bail out of the conversation and don't answer all the rest of what I had to say. But if you'll just read what I wrote, I think you'll find that I gave a lot more than that to the conversation and there's a lot of things there to discuss.

624. Angel-Five - 2/7/2000 10:16:43 AM

Let me tell you what I DO think your position is, Indiana. After all, you're accusing me of putting words in your mouth instead of taking what you've said and asking for clarification, so I might as well do it, no?

I think that for you the cloak of anonymity is valuable because it allows you to be deliberately provocative. It allowed you to do that bullshine one-man Amos and Andy act you used to favor, and it allows you now to say things as Indiana Jones that are at once much more reasonable, yet still provocative enough that you wouldn't want to stand on your front porch, or the NY subway, and shout them. Am I somewhere close to truth with that guess?

Because if so, then I'd say that that ability is something I also value. I just don't value it so much that I'm not willing to try something new. And I guess I'm just sick of all the personal info crap that goes on here and would like to see a reasonable productive end to it.

625. Angel-Five - 2/7/2000 10:30:03 AM

"I don't have a real problem with limiting logins to one
per person, although it can't be done in reality."

Square this statement with your position that the mote
should require "real" IDs.

I wasn't going to bother answering this, because I've little time for debates where an opponent ducks my questions and refuses to acknowledge my arguments but keeps asking that I answer and acknowledge theirs. But there's no reason not to, really.

You can't limit in reality everyone to one login -- at least, not without resorting to prohibitively expensive measures. And even if you were to use a credit card system, or a background check, or indeed anything short of sending people to scope out every Motier to make sure they're legitimate, 'real' people, there would still be a way for someone determined enough (and imbalanced enough to want to expend the necessary energy to do so) to beat the system and post under a false identity.

We aren't the US Government, with billions to spend against computer fraud, we're a bunch of geeks who like to argue and flirt with each other and our central command structure is a few part time volunteers -- so if people can fool the Fed, they sure as fuck can fool us. But that doesn't mean that we can't make it hard enough to do that very few people would ever bother, without expending too much energy in our effort. And if enough people after hearing the arguments for some form of transparency wanted to try it out, I don't see why we shouldn't try it out.

Let me be plain. If anything less than a healthy majority of Motiers wanted to be transparent, there'd be little point, in my mind, in trying to be transparent.

626. Indiana Jones - 2/7/2000 11:58:07 AM

A5: You specialize in lengthy posts to camouflage a paucity of ideas. It's absurd to say the Mote can't prevent multiple log-ins while arguing the Mote should require a single "real" log-in. If you can't see the inherent contradiction in that argument, there's no helping you.

627. Angel-Five - 2/7/2000 12:17:57 PM

And you, my friend, are blowing smoke. If you can't recognize the difference between 'impossible to fully prohibit' and 'possible to prohibit with a reasonable degree of success' then you're being dumb.

But you aren't being dumb, are you, Indiana? You're just trying to evade the issue by pretending you don't get what I'm saying, so you don't have to address it.

If you don't want to, then don't. But let's not bullshit about how I haven't made good arguments for my case, a good argument against the logic of yours, and suggested means of implementing a solution ... just so you don't have to stand up and debate what is in plain sight in my posts.

628. Angel-Five - 2/7/2000 12:19:59 PM

I take it you aren't going to argue with the words I DID put in your mouth?

629. Angel-Five - 2/7/2000 1:59:39 PM

Ah, forget about it. If you don't want to step up, don't step up. You don't like the idea of going transparent for your own reasons, and that's fine -- it's also fine that you don't want to discuss my reasons for liking transparency and why I feel they're adequate. We can drop it, if you like.

630. Indiana Jones - 2/7/2000 9:50:15 PM

A5 (628): Last night I was reluctant to indulge you in your desire for self-abuse and inordinate bandwidth consumption, so I was content in pointing out the largest hole in your argument. As you seem to be a glutton for punishment, however, let us continue. I responded to your first attempt to put words in my mouth with at least two corrections. You ignored them. Ergo, when you start out saying you're going to put words in my mouth, I see little point in observing what comes after.

Now as to your act of cyber-ventriloquism, if you'd like to post those words in the Inferno, couched something like this: "Indy likes anonymity so he can do an Amos and Andy act," do so. I may respond. In the context of a policies debate on whether everyone should be required to reveal his or her true indentity, they are a red herring ad hominem undeserving of response.

631. Indiana Jones - 2/7/2000 9:50:22 PM

"If you can't recognize the difference between 'impossible to fully prohibit' and 'possible to prohibit with a reasonable degree of success' then you're being dumb."

Return for a moment to your original premise. Something like, the current system requires too much hassle and is turning people off. Correct?

You've described one way in which your idea would work: members give their credit card numbers, incur a $5 charge, the charge is subsequently reimbursed. Hmm...which is more of a hassle? Which has a greater chance of turning people off?

Current system: need to have a real email and you receive a good faith effort to protect your privacy. New system: Mote gets your credit card number, everyone knows who you are, Mote staff has to maintain an accounting/reimbursement system.

Tough choice.

The new system requires much more work from the staff (who you describe as over-worked) and intimidates some people from posting. If adopted, instead of having the rare complaint about someone outing personal information, it will happen all the time. I think you are very aware of a couple of instances of that happening on TT. For example, people threatened with having their cable modems pulled, employers notified, etc.?

Further, requiring actual IDs will lead to complaints. "I looked up so-and-so, and I can't find that name anywhere." Instead of the rare complaint now when personal info is outed, you'll have that occurring more often and the veracity of IDs being questioned.

If you'd like, I can beat some of your ancillary arguments about the head just as thoroughly.

632. Indiana Jones - 2/7/2000 9:50:27 PM

Finally, an analogy: You live in a frontier town in which Indian raids are frequent and outlaws numerous. The sheriff says he can't protect you, but he'd like all law-abiding citizens to turn in their guns and start leaving their doors unlocked (the latter to facilitate "making sure you're alright"). Do you do it?

633. Angel-Five - 2/8/2000 2:57:14 AM

Indiana, your argument would make more sense if you could prove that the sort of witch-hunting you describe would actually take place. In the only real-name community I've been a part of, it never did.

Your assertion that the Mote staff would have to handle the data is nonsensical, as tha majority of people who accept credit card traffic online hire an established, trustworthy third party to handle that data, in exchange for a small percentage of the receipts.

That's the way it would work for us -- an infinitesimal charge paid out to a third party who would relay us a list of members, we would give a password, and someone would be in under their real name. Bingo. A far cry from the sort of ridiclouous slippery slope crap you just churned out.

I would add that most of the people here have already paid once if not twice to remain a part of this community.

634. Angel-Five - 2/8/2000 3:02:00 AM

BTW: I logged onto TT for the first time in months last night, and I'd go there a few times a week before to visit a handful of old threads. I haven't updated my subscription list since the late fall. What are you talking about there?

And your frontier town analogy becomes silly the moment you acknowledge that there are people who very visibly make a point of unlocking their front door and turning in their guns... and nothing happens to you. Have you noticed that, Indiana? Strange, isn't it?

635. Indiana Jones - 2/8/2000 5:51:35 AM

"In the only real-name community I've been a part of, it never did."

What? The Well again? Isn't that also a password-protected community, without lurkers? Hard for anyone from outside to judge what goes on there. Look at TableTalk. Haven't you seen the ribbing that RS has received? Did you see what happened to Audrey Regan? Read the threads in which posters lament again and again that they started out posting with their real names. More than one person on TableTalk has lost a job or been threatened with job loss because people tracked down such information.

"Your assertion that the Mote staff would have to handle the data is nonsensical, as tha majority of people who accept credit card traffic online hire an established, trustworthy third party to handle that data."

No, your original plan stated that the nominal charge would be refunded. So of course I assumed our volunteer staff would have to handle it--hardly "nonsensical," given the parameters you described. Is being a free site now another way the Mote "turns posters off"?

"And your frontier town analogy becomes silly the moment you acknowledge that there are people who very visibly make a point of unlocking their front door and turning in their guns."

Have you ever heard of the Quakers? Pacifists, they existed in the Old West, too, but even Grace Kelly learned you need a gunman once in a while. As Jack Crabbe said in Little Big Man, "The lambs will lie down with the lions--as long as you keep adding a few fresh lambs every now and then."

You want to be a lamb, go right ahead. Just don't ask me to lie down with you.

636. Indiana Jones - 2/8/2000 5:51:54 AM

"BTW: I logged onto TT for the first time in months last night, and I'd go there a few times a week before to visit a handful of old threads. I haven't updated my subscription list since the late fall. What are you talking about there?"

Oh, there's a poster there goes by the handle of D H100 who makes threatening other people with real-life consequences a hobby. Fancies himself a real Torquemada.

BTW, it's bizarre you revisit both TableTalk and the Mote after a lengthy "absence," and the first thing you do is start saying we need to change policies: that the current way of doing things is turning people off.

Settle in a bit. Maybe you need to appreciate how the place is doing before deciding you know best how to "fix" it.

637. Angel-Five - 2/8/2000 6:08:32 AM

Bizarre? I don't know, Indiana. When I left people were bitching about the way privacy rules were being treated. When I returned one of the first things I saw was a privacy debate. It gets old after a while.

I don't know why you put absence in quotes, but that combined with your inference that I know what's been going on in TT leads me to believe you think I haven't been gone at all. Is that the case, mon ami?

Anyway, I don't know why you bring up TT as an example of why real identity communities won't work, as TT isn't a real identity community. I'll have to take your word about people in TT lamenting that they used their real names and that this DH1000 (I think I do remember that name, but none of the threat stuff you're talking about) is trying to target them. But you might as well quote the problems encountered in an AOL chat room and try to relate them to what might happen here should we try transparency. It is, as you said, an apples and oranges debate because all the examples you mention of things that can go wrong are based in a non-transparent community.

So your objection to transparency is no longer about the wonderful benefits of anonymity but rather centering upon two things -- you don't think transparency is feasible to implement, and you're worried about some Internet 'lion' eating you up? IS that a fair characterization of what you've said?

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