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57. Ace of Spades - 9/17/1999 9:48:18 PM


But you just outed niner's gender, and implied something about his sexual preference. Was that public information?

It's a joke. He's straight (allegedly) and I make jokes like this. He's never objected before. He will not object now.

Don't drag this down onto a silly level.

58. AdamSelene - 9/17/1999 9:51:53 PM

Acer,

I agree completely with your points justifying anonymity. I’ve revealed some things here that I wouldn’t have revealed to, say, my parents. I think that’s a valuable function of a community like this - it is virtual, you know.

On the other hand, I’ve been so proud of the usual high standards of this site (as carried over from the Fray) that I’ve invited several of my family here – so I might have to add an additional pseudonym if I keep that up…

59. Ace of Spades - 9/17/1999 9:52:45 PM


I do object to the harshness of the penalties, not because they're harsh, but because I expect most violations not to be clear violations. If you make the penalties too harsh, murky violations will be passed over, and you'll start muttering about insiders, cabals, and will try to start email campaigns.

This is a ridiculous complaint. I have NAMED the "most serious" offenses: Revelation of name. Address. Names of family members.

Those are the worst.

What punishment should I get for exposing someone's HIV positive status? I don't know. Let Wabbit decide.

But it's silly to say that, simply because not EVERY revelation is specified with a penatly, we cannot specify "permanant banning" for revealing an anonymous posters' name.

THAT'S specific. For that one violation, it's specified. You can't argue with it. Right there in the rules. Reveal the name or address of a Moter and you just committed a bannable offense.

Will other revelations also dictate banning? Probably. But just because we can't name them all doesn't mean we shouldn't name some.

60. JayAckroyd - 9/17/1999 9:55:16 PM

Comrade Adam,

The problem will continue to be one of interpretation and boundaries. Since some of us do freely give away information publicly--my office phone number is 212-987-4680--and we will consort with each other in real life, and we will obtain personal information from different sources, what can we say and not say? If I mention something about you and airline capacity planning, have I overstepped a bound? If I make a false assertion about your relationship with your dog (mine's fine, btw), is that overstepping a bound?

I happen to think that Seguine overstepped a boundary on purpose, knowingly, in a misguided attempt to make a point. I happen to think that God is a perfectly reasonably moniker. I happen to think those things in the context of the purposely vague rules CalGal wrote into the ROE, and in the context of Ace's explicated rule. Other folks mileage is gonna vary, regardless of what rules you make.

What I liked about the profiles idea is that there is less ambiguity about what is or is not currently public. What's in the profile is public, period. What isn't, isn't. That leaves the real life interaction issue open, but I don't see any way to handle that other than to tell people to handle it in real life. That is, if someone posts something from RL you'd intended to be private, like your aphid problem, let them have it in real life.

--Comrade Bork

61. Ace of Spades - 9/17/1999 9:56:48 PM


I expect most violations not to be clear violations.

If they're not clear, they will result in a lesser penalty.

But if they are clear: Banned.

What's hard about that? Deliberate and malicious revelations of sensitive information are grounds for banning. If one of those elements is not established, it may result in a penalty less than banning. But if both elements are present, the punishment should be banning.

You're very inconsistent: When I want to get detailed, you tell me to simplify. When I simplify, you object that I haven't been detailed enough.

I can do one or the other, Jay. I can't do both.

62. JayAckroyd - 9/17/1999 9:57:41 PM

msg 57

So now he's straight? Your posting his sexual history. By 41, you should be banned.

In context, as I said, this is silly. But that means the rules don't remove the ambiguity, because context matters, and people will disagree about context.

63. AdamSelene - 9/17/1999 9:58:21 PM

Acer,

I tend to agree with your definition of high crimes and misdemeanors (blatant outings.) If you would allow a role for clemency based on unusual or mitigating circumstances and a proper break-in period where everyone learns the new rules, I could support it completely.

64. Ace of Spades - 9/17/1999 9:59:55 PM


Jay:

Niner has revealed his sexuality on numerous occasions. Hundreds. That is therefore NOT "private" information, as the rule states.

These quibbles are outright ludicrous.

65. JayAckroyd - 9/17/1999 10:01:05 PM

"Deliberate and malicious revelations of sensitive information are grounds for banning. If one of those elements is not established, it may result in a penalty less than banning."

What's wrong with that? Add repeated to the first compound subject, and I think that's just fine. It leaves the judge to decide what is or isn't sensitive and what is or isn't deliberate, repeated or malicious. You're gonna need a judge no matter what. And this leaves room for the judge to deal with context and circumstance.

66. JayAckroyd - 9/17/1999 10:04:54 PM

Niner's personal history is all news to me. The point I'm making here is that there's an implicit "unless already made public or clearly just a joke" clause in your rule. And then you're right back on the slippery slope of what's public, or interpreting the offense depending on who's saying it and the context.

67. Ace of Spades - 9/17/1999 10:05:06 PM


If you would allow a role for clemency based on unusual or mitigating circumstances and a proper break-in period where everyone learns the new rules, I could support it completely.

I have suggested that the PRESUMPTIVE penalty for a deliberate, malicious outing of sensitive private information should be banning for the most sensitive info (name, address, shit like that; I'll write a little list if Jay insists) and lesser penalties ranging from one month's to one year's suspension for other very sensitive pieces of information. (For lesser, trivial pieces of information, days or weeks, if someone squawks about it.) But that's PRESUMTIVE. If there are strongly mitigating circumstances, sure, give a lesser penalty.

I would allow NO TIME for people to "get used to the rule." It's right there in the RoE. It will be debated. And IT'S COMMON SENSE, anyway.

I am NOT talking about revelations like, "Oh, I had a wonderful lunch with Glenda last week." For god's sake, that's not what we're talking about here. It's absurd to bring that up, since no one's going to bitch about it.

68. AdamSelene - 9/17/1999 10:06:19 PM

Jay,

The problem will continue to be one of interpretation and boundaries. Since some of us do freely give away information publicly--my office phone number is 212-987-4680--and we will consort with each other in real life, and we will obtain personal information from different sources, what can we say and not say?

I think it should be workable that if a poster reveals something in the Mote, others can use it and any reasonable inferences thereof. Fuzzy cases are fuzzy, and if a poster thinks a host is not being aggressive enough in banning unreasnable inferences, they can complain to the management trio. But such small scale stuff is barely worth a stern warning, certainly not a suspension.

If I mention something about you and airline capacity planning, have I overstepped a bound? If I make a false assertion about your relationship with your dog (mine's fine, btw), is that overstepping a bound?

Not if I’ve revealed it online or if it’s an obvious inference. But – if I reveal my line of work and it happens to be rare enough that you can put it together with a few other tidbits and figure out who I am (within –say- an 80% certainty), then I would hope you would ask my permission before outing me – and if you outed me without my permission, I would expect the host to censor it immediately.

69. Ace of Spades - 9/17/1999 10:06:41 PM


Jay:

NO. NO "REPEATED." If I get outed ONCE, deliberately and maliciously, WHY THE HELL SHOULD THE OFFENDER GET A SECOND CHANCE TO OUT SOMEBODY ELSE?

I feel very strongly about this (note the all caps). I redirect you to my post about warnings: There is no need for a warning. You are already warned.

70. Ace of Spades - 9/17/1999 10:10:17 PM


Jay:

I defined "public" in an earlier version of the rules. You squawked that it was too complex. Here's the definition again, if you want it:

For information to be "public" information, it must be revealed EXPLICITLY, PUBLICLY, and PERSONALLY by the Motie himself.

What does that mean?

Explicity: Motie must offer the information explicitly. Just because you can derive, say, Pelle Nillson's medical history by searching a database for it, that doesn't mean he's "explicitly" offered the information. "Derived" information is not explicitly provided by the motie.

PUBLICLY: The Motie must reveal it publicly, on line. Not in a phone call. Not in an e-mail. SImple

PERSONALLY: The Motie must reveal it himself. If someone outs the Motie, that information should not be considered "public," because the Motie himself did not reveal it.

71. JayAckroyd - 9/17/1999 10:10:54 PM

Everyone agrees with that formulation Adam. And I really thought we'd be fine depending on good will and good faith, which that formulation depends on.

the problem comes up when personal animosity leads to people testing the boundaries of the rules and accusing each other of violating the rules. The only answer for that, as Ace has said, is to find a respected enforcer who will simply lay down the law without appeal. Once that's done a couple of times, the boundaries will be clearer. I object to lengthy, specific rules because they create arguments about unstated principles.

72. AdamSelene - 9/17/1999 10:11:14 PM

All:

Many people have talked about how terrible this discussion has been - and there have been needless excesses - but I'm still very happy with the way it's turning out. We seem to have a slightly looser content-based censoring standard than the old place, we're keeping the idea of respecting each other's privacy (as individually desired), and we're finding novel ways to deal with flame-outs.

I'm a fairly happy camper, at this point.

73. JayAckroyd - 9/17/1999 10:12:35 PM

Sorry, Ace, I meant repeated to mean, "repeated, but not malicious."

on 70, isn't that exactly what profiles would accomplish--the summary of material that the motie considers public?

74. AdamSelene - 9/17/1999 10:16:16 PM

Jay,

the problem comes up when personal animosity leads to people testing the boundaries of the rules and accusing each other of violating the rules. The only answer for that, as Ace has said, is to find a respected enforcer who will simply lay down the law without appeal. Once that's done a couple of times, the boundaries will be clearer. I object to lengthy, specific rules because they create arguments about unstated principles.

I don't think these are necessarily mutually exclusive. A clear rule with appropriate hedge words ("blatant" outings, for example) and a respected (final) enforcer will work just fine. As I've said, I would rather see rule-testers aggressively dealt with, because they are intentionally trying to see how much they can reveal - and I see no good reason why we want people to even be trying to reveal stuff.

75. Ace of Spades - 9/17/1999 10:16:18 PM


Niner's personal history is all news to me.

It's not news to a hundred people here. And Niner is just about my best "virtual" buddy, so come on. Give me a break.

I think something should be sort of implicit: When you divulge personal information, the DIVULGER does so at his own risk. The violated party should not bear the burden of risk. If there is a risk of uncertainty to be borne here, then for god's sake, let's place that uncertainty on posters who reveal information about other posters, NOT the aggrieved party.

And I stand by that rule.

If Niner complains that I've outed him as a straight, then I KNEW the risk I was taking, and *I* should bear the consequences. And if there's a penalty to be paid, I'll pay it.

The rule should be: When in doubt, don't out. If you're unsure, keep your fucking mouth shut. Ask a question. If you go up to the line and then cross it, and somebody calls you on it, you should pay the price, because common sense dictates you shouldn't have been near that line at all.

76. Ace of Spades - 9/17/1999 10:18:15 PM



Adam:

EXACTLY!!! The burden of risk, the burden of uncertainty, should be on the "outer" of private info, not on the VICTIM!!

If you want to push the envelope, don't whine and bitch if you break the envelope and get penalized for it. You knew you were taking a chance. If you were showing other people the respect they deserved, you wouldn't have been pushing the envelope in the first fucking place.

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