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23896. alistairconnor - 4/8/2008 2:23:35 PM Good luck to you and Les, Judith!
Congrats on breaking old ground, Thoughtful!
And many returns to the happy Birthday Boyz Band (Ohio and Jex) 23897. thoughtful - 4/8/2008 2:42:30 PM I doubt this will help get the excavator digging any sooner, but I couldn't resist:
Oh Ken,
Oh Ken,
Say when
To dig,
To dig,
A big
A hole
A hole
Our goal
To start
To start
Our heart's
Desire
Desire
Acquire
A home
A home
Sweet home.
23898. thoughtful - 4/8/2008 2:43:57 PM Best wishes to J@h & son...I'm sure all will go well. Sending good vibes your way.
Best birthday wishes to Ohio & Jex...many happy returns (seeing as April 15 is coming!!!) 23899. thoughtful - 4/8/2008 4:01:46 PM Hahahah!
Just got a response from the project manager:
A hole
A hole
A hole you shall have
Will be the best in all the land
Just wait
Just wait
But not for long
Soon you will sing a song a song
Is today the day
Just wait and see
A call from the site you will get from me
23900. wonkers2 - 4/8/2008 7:12:56 PM Thoughtful, why don't you put up a link to the plans? 23901. wonkers2 - 4/8/2008 7:13:42 PM Or to a front perspective? 23902. thoughtful - 4/8/2008 8:35:49 PM well, i don't have them electronically... 23903. thoughtful - 4/8/2008 8:37:41 PM Now, if i can only get ken to stop writing poetry and find the @$#*&%!! excavator! Most frustrating as the weather yesterday and today were beautiful but by fri, sat and sun it's supposed to be all rain.
23904. thoughtful - 4/8/2008 10:26:20 PM From all my conversations with people who have built houses, I gather this is just the very very beginning of a very very long line of frustrations. 23905. arkymalarky - 4/8/2008 10:48:17 PM It is, but it's worth it, and if you keep your karma right you'll look back on it fondly. And there's a lot of pride and good feeling in it. I look at the decisions I've made and after 11 years I'm still satisfied and happy with my choices. I haven't even changed paint colors. Not that I won't one of these days. Our original mortgage financer, who built a much more palatial home than ours, said he didn't regret anything about his building decisions, down to the placement of his light switches.
A good friend built when I did and she's changed things up a lot--once due to a tree falling in the middle of her house. Her house is over twice as large as mine, and I remember when we were doing the foundations she cried because hers seemed so small. It's amazing that you walk around in what seems like a tiny space that becomes a nice-sized room. I don't know if it'll seem that way to y'all or not, but I remember wondering how we'd even turn around in our front bay room. 23906. judithathome - 4/9/2008 5:22:04 AM Leslie will have a stent put in on Thursday April 17. The doctor told him it is hospital policy (which he made very clear he personally opposes) that ten grand has to be paid upfront before the hospital will allow the surgery...WITH insurance!
I told Les this is why he needs to vote differently this time....ha!
Anyhow, the money is no problem...but that is just because our family is lucky...what about someone who has a desperate need for this surgery but can't come up with ten grand in ten days?
Anyhow, this whole thing sounds surreal...he will spend Thursday night in the hospital, go home on Friday, and the doctor said if he wants, he can go back to work on Monday! This doctor, who has long and slender gorgeous fingers, will be fiddling inside my son's brain and he says to us that afterward, my son can go back to work in two-day's time...it's amazing to me! 23907. wonkers2 - 4/9/2008 5:46:42 AM My Grosse Pointe GOP friends who oppose "socialized medicing" say that nobody goes without health care in the U.S. If they don't have money, all they have to do is show up at an emergency room and they will get the same treatment as anybody else. 23908. thoughtful - 4/9/2008 1:37:57 PM I hope you suggested to your friend that s/he try showing up at the emergency room to get a colonoscopy screening test and see how far s/he gets. 23909. thoughtful - 4/9/2008 1:49:59 PM J@h, that is amazing. I think they kept my brother in the hospital for at least a week after he had his stent put in.
And that money up front thing with insurance is beyond belief. What happens to all the people who don't have the $10k because they spent it on paying their insurance premiums!
Just like the catch-22 with the alternative minimum tax, which we get nailed by. We're not masters of foundations and charitable giving or anything. But we pay through the nose in property taxes which increases our deductions so much that the feds make us pay even more with the AMT!
 23910. judithathome - 4/9/2008 3:49:58 PM I don't know what people do who are told they need a stent in their brain when they have no access to ten grand that they can come up with in ten days' time. I guess they don't get one and they die.
Wonk, tell your friends they don't generally DO neurosurgery in the ER...or, as Thoughtful says, diagnostic testing. In fact, twice now my son has been sent home with incorrect diagnoses after trips to the ER....once they told him he had a pulled muscle in his leg...he had a blocked artery and almost lost his leg...and once they said it was sinus headache, sent him home, and it was a stroke.
So your GOP friends, who likely will never have to depend on ER care, can be content with the knowledge that the great unwashed is slowly being weeded out for lack of funds.
And I mean no disrespect to anyone who works in ERs...they save lives and work under immense pressure, made even worse by the numbers of people who can't afford regular care. It's just that mistakes CAN be made...especially when they are dead tired from treating everyone and their dogs for every known malady. The last time I was at the ER (Keoni had what we thought was a ruptured hernia) a man came in with his girlfriend and he had a COLD...a cold and cough which he could have treated with OTC stuff from the drugstore. He ended up in the cubicle next to Keoni and I could hear him describing his illness...it was Friday night and he'd had this for three days; he didn't even have a fever! The med tech suggested he go buy some Nyquil and Mucinex at Walgreen's. And this cost approximately $900+....for a damned cold. But of course, he got his advice from the ER for free.
23911. judithathome - 4/9/2008 3:52:54 PM I grew up thinking you didn't go to the emergency room for anything but a dire emergency...a car wreck left you with broken bones; a heart attack; an early labor coming on...a stroke.
Not colds or flu or a vague ache in your hand from carpel tunnel syndrome. 23912. thoughtful - 4/9/2008 4:17:54 PM But that's precisely the point. In one sense, we do have universal health care...it's just that the system operates so poorly and is so full of inefficiencies that we are getting worse outcomes for more than twice the cost of those countries that do have universal health care.
And for all of those folks who gripe about socialized medicine (note it really isn't socialized medicine...it IS socialized insurance!), they should ask all the folks in the USA who currently get socialized medicine, known as medicare, how happy they are. 23913. wonkers2 - 4/9/2008 4:31:19 PM True. 23914. Ms. No - 4/9/2008 6:14:02 PM Good news, Judith!
Congratulations on the groundbreaking T'ful!
hey, Wonk, do your neighbors make you wanna join iiibbb in his gun stance? ;->
My trip to the tax specialist this year pissed me off because I had to claim my state REFUND from last year as INCOME. Sure sounds like double taxation to me but of course we don't do that. My accountant was hopping mad. She's been to several conferences already protesting this ridiculousness. 23915. thoughtful - 4/9/2008 8:12:39 PM Thanks, missy, but we're still waiting...nothing yet.
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