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24757. judithathome - 12/9/2008 6:53:13 PM "are things in reality really as bad as we are being told."
They are probably worse.
And as to your question of knowing anyone who has lost their home, indirectly I see it DAILY. My husband is in the moving business...he comes home every day bummed beyond belief because he is having to tell people it isn't cheap to move...and they are moving because they have had their homes foreclosed on. They either decide to sell their belongings because it's too expensive to move or they put their things in storage because they have no place to move them...no new place because they can't afford one.
So don't tell ME it's all media driven. Keoni and I lost a third of our retirement in the past two months. That's not going to come back quickly.
Keoni's commissions on moves are down for the reasons I cited above...so we are looking at a lean winter.
We were rigid about savings...we paid in to his 401k and my mutual funds and our other savings before we paid anything else...always. For years. And what did THAT get us? One third of it down the drain. The house is paid for but it's probably going to be devalued...it's really effed up right now and it's NOT the media that has done it.
24758. judithathome - 12/9/2008 7:03:08 PM Update on my son...we were at the doctor for three hours yesterday...the doc induced an attack of vertigo for diagnostic purposes. Les will be seeing an ENT who specializes in vertigo but not until he's had a head and neck MRI this afternoon to make sure this isn't being caused by post-surgical circulation problems. He had about four attacks of it yesterday after we left the doc...we were starving and got to a restaurant (he was feeling fine), got out of the car and entered the place, and he started reeling and we went back to the car. I stayed with him the rest of the day and we ate crackers and watched the History Channel.
My son is killing me, slowly but surely...just kidding but sometimes I wonder if he's trying to get back at me for not giving him a motorcycle when he was 14. 24759. arkymalarky - 12/9/2008 7:59:00 PM Thanks for the update. Is there anything they can give him for symptoms in the meantime? 24760. thoughtful - 12/9/2008 9:50:31 PM I'm sorry he's still not well, but I'm so glad that they're following up on les' symptoms. He has such a complicated medical history that, even if the first answer is the right one, it can't hurt to ask the questions just to be sure.
Vertigo is an odd feeling but the stomach sickness that comes with it is just the worst. My sympathies. 24761. wabbit - 12/9/2008 10:23:48 PM I went through a bad bout of vertigo for about eight weeks when I went off Prednisone a few years ago. It passed, but I'm back on a low daily dose, having found nothing comes close to replacing a good corticosteroid. Non-drug-induced vertigo is far worse and lasts longer. Les has my sympathy, I hope the docs get him back on his feet asap. 24762. thoughtful - 12/9/2008 10:50:49 PM wabbit, i was talking to a buddy whose bro is a doc and whose wife suffers RA...he was saying their latest thinking is on high doses of vit d-3 for pain relief. I haven't read or followed up on it, but just thought I'd pass it on. 24763. wabbit - 12/9/2008 11:11:21 PM Thanks t'ful. I've heard about D-3 being used for lower back pain, but not RA. I don't take anything for pain, I seem to be very sensitive to painkillers. The anti-inflammatories (prednisone, ibuprofen) help, and the methotrexate and enbrel injections slow the progress of RA. But it's a funny thing, after thirty years I find I can psych myself out of feeling a lot of pain. I'm always aware of it, of course, but it's tolerable. I ice my hands when they get bad, but otherwise I'm doing pretty well. Still, D-3 can't hurt and won't interfere with anything I'm already taking. 24764. wonkers2 - 12/10/2008 12:23:02 AM The pain is real but the scan may be misleading 24765. thoughtful - 12/10/2008 3:32:49 PM wabbit, Vit d3 and pain relief 24766. thoughtful - 12/10/2008 3:33:53 PM I'm sorry to report that I'm still getting my morning headaches since taking the quercetin. Hubby seems to have no ill effects from it.
I'll have to quit it for awhile and see if the headaches go away... 24767. judithathome - 12/10/2008 5:17:19 PM Yesterday, my son was scheduled for an MRI here in town. Yesterday was particularly hard on him, symptom-wise, but we drove over to the MRI place and waited the requsite hour and a half to get him seen...no one keeps a schedule in the medical community any longer...and the tech came out and motioned to me. Seems they can't GIVE him one because of the aneurysm clip in his head! Even though it is not metal...they need verification from his neurologist that it is MRI compatable.
While I can appreciate their dilemma, I was still furious...not at them, they were super nice about it. But I got on the phone to the neurologist as I was driving us back to Leslie's house and reamed them out...the neurologist was called by Les' family doctor yesterday morning and HE gave the okay for the MRI! Why didn't HE mention the friggin' clip...we didn't remember it until we were at the imaging place filling out paperwork and even then, I figured since it was plastic, we were good to go. Well, I can appreciate the imaging guys' concern and need for verification...and am glad they were alert because if it HAD been metal and he'd gone through that, he'd be dead. (He couldn't have had one done there, anyhow, because it was a closed machine. (Les is claustrophobic)
Anyhow, the neurologist faxed verification to the family doctor (last night after the family doctor was gone for the day...) and now we're back at square one, waiting to find a place that will a.) have an "open" MRI machine and b.) have an appointment open.
Meanwhile, we STILL haven't got a referral and appointment with the ENT doctor to actually
treat the vertigo...I called this morning and asked them to go ahead and schedule him with the ENT doctor because I'm almost 100% certain this MRI is a waste of time. The doctor wanted it to cover his ass...in case it is a circulation problem instead of vertigo. Well, I suppose he IS concerned about Leslie, too...treatment involves manipulation of the neck and he is post-surgical in that area.
Still, he is sick as a dog and needs something done NOW. This is driving me crazy because all I've done the past week is try to get my son some treatment...I spend at least 6 hours a day either with him, at the doctor's, or on the phone trying to get him fixed. I could kick those ER people in the ass for releasing him last Wednesday night...they should have checked him into the hospital and called an ENT doctor but they sent him home with a puke bag and prescriptions. How can one control nausea with meds while throwing up?
I'm about to lose it, big time. 24768. thoughtful - 12/10/2008 6:09:41 PM See if the doc can give him a suppository for controlling nausea..my gf suffered from severe migraines that involved vomiting and the suppositories saved her.
So sorry to hear he's having these problems. 24769. judithathome - 12/10/2008 6:40:02 PM Oh, he HAS those but refuses to use them...he may have changed his mind since yesterday, though.
Finally got a response from his doc...we see the ENT guy at 8:30am tomorrow. And they located an imaging place for the MRI...said it may be a few days before we can get one but to go ahead to the ENT guy tomorrow.
Also, they are faxing the verification of the aneur. clip over to the MRI place...god knows where in town the place is.
It makes me mad that we wasted two days waiting for an MRI that didn't happen, though. We should have been sent right over to the ENT guy on Monday afternoon. 24770. thoughtful - 12/10/2008 9:10:09 PM he HAS those but refuses to use them
sounds like he's his own worst enemy.... 24771. robertjayb - 12/11/2008 12:48:32 AM Snow! Freaking snow! This calls for brandy. Too bad the stuff I have on hand is awful. But I'll brave it. 24772. arkymalarky - 12/11/2008 1:35:45 AM Hey, aren't you in Houston? Wonder if we're supposed to get any! 24773. robertjayb - 12/11/2008 1:54:41 AM According to intellicast.com Shreveport should be getting snow or mixed (?) fairly soon and the system is moving slowly to the northeast. El Dorado seems to be in the path. Snow/mixed shows up for Houston too. I'm 100 miles from Houston and right now on the western edge of the weather. 24774. arkymalarky - 12/11/2008 1:59:28 AM Sounds like one of the rare cases it goes south of us. Don't see any predictions here. Snow days are the absolute best days out of school, but it's best if we don't have one now--we're in the middle of our end-of-semester insanity. Hope you don't have to get on the road. 24775. judithathome - 12/11/2008 3:45:23 AM My son failed the 6:30 pm MRI this evening and is spending the night here...we're seeing a specialist tomorrow morning at 8:30am. 24776. judithathome - 12/11/2008 3:47:28 AM Failed: couldn't hack the procedure. He's still throwing up and dizzy...even laying down on our couch.
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