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25979. judithathome - 5/4/2010 11:25:44 PM Thoughtful, I am so sorry to learn of your mother's passing...and of all your other frustrations. Those posts upthread where you described her are a beautiful testament...reading it brought tears to my eyes. She was lucky to have you and you were lucky to have her...I know nothing can make the pain of losing someone so special go away and I won't tell you it gets easier because I don't want to lie about it...but in time, it gets a little "softer".
And just a hint: don't worry about the estate stuff. It will take what seems an eternity for that stuff to get sorted out. We are still dealing with my son's estate...you just have to look on it as a lesson in life...nothing can speed it up. It's like Bleak House...
I hope you stick around. I haven't been here much myself or anywhere else on the internet, for that matter. I think after 10 or so years, the novelty may have worn off a bit. ;-)
Take care and know that I'm thinking of you and wishing you the best. 25980. thoughtful - 5/6/2010 12:46:06 AM Thanks, J@h. Thanks for your kindness and sympathy. I am hoping it gets 'softer'. Every day yet, I can bawl my eyes out with missing her. I'm working most diligently at healing myself. But it isn't easy.
I'm reading "The Art of Happiness" and as the Dalai Lama says, it does get easier if we understand and accept that suffering is part of life.
I'm learning to accept, but I ain't likin' it much! 25981. judithathome - 5/8/2010 3:22:25 PM It's still taking time for me...I realize now that right after it happened, I was sort of shell-shocked. I can't even remember what I did last summer...I had to think hard to recall that I actually DID swim every day for three months last summer!
And the tendency is to hole up and avoid everything and I found I gave into that big time and am still doing so to some extent now...trying to push myself out there a bit more now and I'm finding it's good for me to do so.
That "teary" stuff won't go away soon, I'm sorry to say. 25982. wabbit - 5/9/2010 3:33:09 PM Happy Mother's Day to all the Mote Moms.
Thoughtful, I'll be thinking of you most of all today. 25983. Ms. No - 5/9/2010 4:40:38 PM Happy Mother's Day to all! 25984. arkymalarky - 5/9/2010 8:34:41 PM Happy Mother's Day, especially to Thoughtful and Judith. 25985. magoseph - 5/10/2010 9:57:16 PM you know, toughtful, when you and my elder son say the word Dalai Lama 25986. magoseph - 5/10/2010 10:35:41 PM Sorry for the typo, thoughtful, but to finish my sentence:
Sorry agin, another day, duty is calling now.
25987. magoseph - 5/10/2010 10:36:16 PM hahaha, again again and again! 25988. magoseph - 5/11/2010 12:03:25 AM hahaha, again again and again! 25989. thoughtful - 5/11/2010 7:56:28 PM Thanks all, and happy belated mothers' day to all the moms out there.
There is no love like a mother's love. Something special and to be cherished.
Though all I got from the cat was a coughed up fur ball....
25990. judithathome - 5/12/2010 8:08:50 PM There are foods specially made to do away with that problem....
;-) 25991. wabbit - 5/14/2010 4:12:08 PM One of my cats brought me a dead mouse for Mother's Day. She was so proud. 25992. arkymalarky - 5/15/2010 1:25:51 AM We had a manhunt today. He was found this aft. Former TX state trooper. 25993. judithathome - 5/16/2010 4:22:55 PM They make the best felons. 25994. alistairconnor - 5/21/2010 9:32:44 PM We have not been careless.
Reckless, would be more like it. Voluntarily irresponsible. Tempting fate, in full knowledge of the possible consequences.
And after all, there is nothing so very extraordinary about it. I am (still, only) forty-nine, she is forty-two. There is nothing irresponsible about the prospect. Inconvenient, certainly. Is that such a strong reason? 25995. judithathome - 5/21/2010 11:52:33 PM Are you saying what I think you're saying? 25996. alistairConnor - 5/22/2010 12:14:12 PM Leave me a margin of plausible deniability, my dear. In any case, there's nothing doing, that's clear. Still, it's nice to dream. Bittersweet. 25997. arkymalarky - 5/23/2010 12:55:42 AM So cryptic! I've got my scenarios prioritized by order of likelihood. Bank robbery is aqt the top. 25998. arkymalarky - 5/23/2010 12:56:28 AM A cheap play
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