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26330. msgreer - 3/10/2011 6:47:56 PM

How long do you have, Judith? So much has happen since we last spoke. So good to hear from you.

26331. judithathome - 3/11/2011 6:12:14 PM

Drop me an email at judithathome@lycos.com and I'll fill you in.

26332. judithathome - 3/11/2011 6:13:57 PM

Well, scratch that...I can't get that site to load.

26333. msgreer - 3/11/2011 8:57:52 PM

Judith
I waited for a reply but realized you must have gotten busy. Today is not a great day to converse unless you like talking to a person on muscle relaxants and pain meds. Darn it all.
I really want to ask you some questions that I would post in Health.
For now, I am out of it. I will try again when I can focus.

26334. msgreer - 3/11/2011 8:59:23 PM

Judith
I don't know if The Mote keeps emails anymore but if so we could be in contact that way as well.

26335. msgreer - 3/11/2011 10:02:58 PM

Judith
nurseisin@yahoo.com

26336. iiibbb - 3/14/2011 5:16:43 PM

Well I just sent a email to my brother in law that I hope doesn't bite me in the ass.

Ongoing feud between him and my wife concerning the liberties he takes with their parents. He's got issues (had a heart attack 5 years ago and has been living with parents ever since. Won't get a job... won't change his lifestyle... might be bipolar. He has no sense of boundaries.

P's lost her tolerance for it all.

He sent an email to me and her a few days essentially telling us how much progress he's made, but P's got a lot of problems...

... I responded politely...

But his second email indicates that he has no concept about people's boundaries and how his sometimes bizarre interactions with P colors her view about his progress (he seems to save some sort of drama for each of our visits... probably out of stress... mostly because he wants P to acknowledge is progress)

At one point a few years ago I told P that if her parents pass and he's not on his feet he can never live with us. He's been angry with her and attributed the comment about never living with us to her (not sure how he came to hear it... but whatever). I fessed up. I told him that was all me... that we'd do what we could to make sure he got on his feet, but I wouldn't be able to live with him in my house (because he trashes places he lives and takes liberties).

Oh well... we'll see how he takes it.

26337. judithathome - 3/14/2011 8:43:00 PM

He heard about your comment from her...how else could he have heard it? Unless she told your parents what you'd said and they told him.

Were I you, I'd stay out of the family drama; easy to say, difficult to do but it's the wisest choice. Even if siblings hate each other, in a battle, they will side with one another and probably turn on you. Sounds overly-dramatic but I've seen happen so many times...be careful.

26338. magoseph - 3/15/2011 12:51:44 PM

Even if siblings hate each other, in a battle, they will side with one another and probably turn on you.

Sound advice, Judith!

26339. judithathome - 3/15/2011 6:38:20 PM

Mags!!! How've you been?

26340. iiibbb - 3/15/2011 8:22:07 PM

I love this song... you may hate it if you have delicate ears... but it is just so happy... and not...

F-U

26341. iiibbb - 3/15/2011 8:24:41 PM

I'm not worried... I showed my wife what I wrote and she has no problem with it. And I followed the sage rule that dictates serving pills with 2 or 3 lumps of sugar.

26342. judithathome - 3/15/2011 9:22:04 PM

Ha! You're a wise man, indeed!

26343. arkymalarky - 3/20/2011 4:24:11 AM

Nice fire, moon, drink, and company. Wish y'all were here.

26344. judithathome - 3/20/2011 4:17:02 PM

Cloud cover here...couldn't even see the moon. Wish we'd been there indeed!

26345. judithathome - 3/20/2011 4:19:51 PM

Yesterday afternoon we went to a play and out to eat.

Ya think you're out for a nice day with friends and ya get home and your country has attacked and gone to war with another one!

26346. judithathome - 3/21/2011 9:17:17 PM

We got a new TV yesterday....life is good!

26347. arkymalarky - 3/22/2011 5:05:21 AM

Yay!

26348. Ms. No - 3/26/2011 4:25:50 PM

I'm coloring my hair in a hotel room. I feel like a spy.

26349. wabbit - 4/1/2011 9:45:38 PM

Best Aprils's Fool prank I've seen today:

Nothing for sale on eBay, bids start at $1

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