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27122. iiibbb - 1/1/2013 5:11:23 PM Happy new year.
If I went on what 2012 felt like, I would have said it was a crummy year; however, I started a new job, moved to a part of the country I'm at least more keen to be in. Had another healthy baby.
But I still feel shaky. Move was uber stressful. The job is soft money. I haven't had any time to socialize or do anything recreational. The baby came right when a crazy time at work started. Yesterday my work computer hard drive crashed badly and I'm wondering how long it will take to get me going again (data was backed up). Not to mention the current state of politics. We do not save enough money and my wife can't fathom certain lifestyle changes.
If not for my very supportive boss and my MiL I would have been up shit creek.
So this year might be the one that we turn the corner. If my job gets extended, my wife successfully transitions to a new job. And kid 2 keeps developing the way he should... I am hopeful for a good year. 27123. arkymalarky - 1/1/2013 6:21:22 PM I hope so too. Y'all deserve it.
I started the year with a fall and a deep cut on my chin and one on my forehead. I was cleaning and slipped on my mopped washroom floor. That'll teach me to clean. 27124. arkymalarky - 1/1/2013 6:23:01 PM I'm nervous having bought a car. I hope we adjust to any economic fluctuations without a problem. 27125. Ms. No - 1/1/2013 6:41:40 PM Happy New Year to you all! 27126. iiibbb - 1/1/2013 7:57:05 PM Arky... either the economic fluctuations have no effect on your car purchase... or the fluctuations will be so significant as to render a car purchase irrelevant.
There won't be many people on the margins. 27127. Wombat - 1/1/2013 8:34:38 PM Happy New Year, all! Hopefully 2013 will be better than 2012. 27128. arkymalarky - 1/1/2013 11:50:48 PM Gee3i, you know just what to say to ease my mind! ;] 27129. iiibbb - 1/2/2013 3:25:14 PM It's what I do to ease mine... now you know why I'm so stress free. 27130. alistairconnor - 1/2/2013 3:27:19 PM Happy this year to all the Mote People. May you arrive at a hospitable port, etc.
Back to work today, heart's not in it. Would rather be at home : both daughters are there, which is rare. Left them in the tender care of Madame, so there may be fur flying by now (the Great Unresolved Issue of my current life is the step-parenthood thing).
Elder Daughter is off to Finland (Turku) on Friday, for her Erasmus thing (a semester at a foreign university). 27131. alistairconnor - 1/2/2013 3:29:26 PM Notable Events : Madame got her French citizenship in late 2012, so the possibility of marriage is back on the table.
It's hard to say why that seems so important to me. You'd think I'd know better by now. Maybe it's the tax advantage. 27132. arkymalarky - 1/2/2013 4:24:56 PM Sounds like your fan is off to a good start! 27133. arkymalarky - 1/2/2013 4:25:34 PM Fam! 27134. alistairconnor - 1/3/2013 10:36:51 AM Good start?... five years down the track, I have finally admitted defeat with respect to a "yours mine and ours" happy family. But that's OK, the elder kids are both 19 and more or less out of danger.
We've been watching "Game of thrones" which is nicely cathartic, and helps to put our situations in perspective. 27135. bhelpuri - 1/3/2013 2:00:24 PM Viva Connnor, and also ib (times three) and all else here. Happy New Year. 27136. judithathome - 1/3/2013 6:06:53 PM "We've been watching "Game of thrones" which is nicely cathartic"
The production values in that series rival any movie released today...I can't wait for Season Three to start! I'm not one for "fantasy" but this show has me hooked. 27137. robertjayb - 1/8/2013 8:08:09 PM HooRay! Thunder and hard rain just started here nortwest of Houston with more predicted for a couple of days. I've begun to worry about our trees. 27138. robertjayb - 1/10/2013 7:34:08 PM Pleased to report very welcome 4.2" total rain with more possible at the weekend. 27139. arkymalarky - 1/10/2013 11:24:18 PM Yay! 27140. Ms. No - 1/21/2013 12:23:13 AM Some people drunk dial or text. My friend drunk drops-in because he's always losing his phone with my number in it.
I don't see him for months or sometimes a couple of years at a time and the last few times I've seen him, he is looking more and more like the sort of man that people avoid on the street.
He looked homeless when he showed up last night with his dog. He isn't homeless, but he looked it.
And he wants to reminisce about old times and talk theater as if we were still in school. He mentions people that we knew as if we still were in touch with them --- likely to see them on a daily basis.
Last night around about beer four and hour two-and-a-half, he went off on a tangent about the Love Song of J. Alfred Prufrock which I ought to be ashamed to admit that I've never much cared for. I read it once. I didn't get it and didn't care to spend any time trying to.
So, anyway, my friend is looking at me and comparing himself to Prufrock. He's nearly in tears talking about wasted potential and the spark that's still left if only to endure and play a sideline role. And I think maybe he's remembering that I used to be in love with him and how he turned me away less than kindly because he thought I wasn't quite worthy to be seen with him.
But it's cold outside and I've really had enough of drunken ramblings and I'm embarrassed for him and hoping none of my neighbors come out to see who's being so loud, and even though I don't have it in me to tell him he needs to leave, he must finally get the idea that he's far overstayed his welcome.
And so he left, and I wish him well and happiness, but I also don't ever again want to see what's become of the man I used to know. And I really don't like to think of how much he reminds me of my father.
Damn Freud. 27141. arkymalarky - 1/21/2013 1:14:27 AM Sorry No. That may happen more as you get older. I love the poem, but at heart Prufrock is a coward, too concerned about the opinions of others to take a chance on expressing the depth of understanding he believes he possesses. In the end, he resugns himself to his mental mediocrity without even sharing with the reader. So does he have that depth? Who knows. And with your friend obviously no one cares. Good to see he certainly wasn't worthy of you and his own shallowness helped you dodge a mess, it sounds like.
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