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27458. PincherMartin - 7/1/2013 1:44:59 AM Hahaha ! I'm sure he'd agree with me that you're a great stylist and a moron.
But agree or not, that's certainly the way he treated you in the good old days. 27459. PincherMartin - 7/1/2013 1:49:45 AM Bhel has an impressionistic intelligence that expresses itself best in words (rather than, say, brushstrokes or musical notes).
But he does not know how to analyze, and he wouldn't know how to debate if his family's life depended on it. 27460. judithathome - 7/1/2013 2:08:10 AM I doubt he'd be so cavalier with his family's lives in the first place. 27461. PincherMartin - 7/1/2013 2:10:12 AM Judith,
I didn't say he should bet his family's lives on his ability to debate. But if for some obscure reason his family depended on him having that skill, they'd be goners. 27462. PincherMartin - 7/1/2013 2:14:15 AM But, hey, bhel's in fine company here by lacking that skill.
It's perfectly believable to me that when you, him, ibby, and Arky get together and chitchat about the great issues of the day, that the four of you would completely agree that you all have a very fine ability to analyze and debate matters of importance. 27463. PincherMartin - 7/1/2013 2:17:27 AM BTW, no one here has bothered to thank me for sparking some life back into this forum.
When's the last time you guys ever had such a crowd? 27464. arkymalarky - 7/1/2013 2:36:33 AM it's avoiding that kinda crap which keeps us coming back here.we love our lives and interests and we don't feel a need to keep this place going with petty shallow repetitive exchanges 24/7. None of us is defined by what impression we're trying to make here, a la junior high. Thankfully we have better things to do. Hopefully one day you'll be able to say the same.
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Which I'm here to tell y'all is my current favorite place on the planet. I can't believe I just now have one. When I think of all the lost leisure time I spent not having one.... 27465. arkymalarky - 7/1/2013 2:39:04 AM which reminds me: mildescape.com. she makes the most lovely escape games, and posted a new one just today. 27466. iiibbb - 7/1/2013 2:44:49 AM they say strange things happen to people who have been to the end of the Internet... I thought I'd never see one 27467. PincherMartin - 7/1/2013 3:03:28 AM Arky demonstrates well in her #27466 my earlier point about her (and a few others here) not having the ability to debate.
"it's avoiding that kinda crap which keeps us coming back here."
But most are NOT coming back.
This is the deadest forum on the planet, and it has been for many years.
Now if the six of you still enjoy coming back here on a monthly basis to post about some small personal episode in your lives, I think that's great. Everyone should have friends. Even Bhel.
But isn't that why they invented Facebook?
When I look on the front page of this forum, I see threads like News and Current Events, International, Religion and Philosophy, Technology and Science, Health, American Politics, etc. - all of which invite the forum's posters in to comment and debate.
But even when some poster accidentally wanders into one of those threads and makes a comment, nothing resembling a debate follows.
Occasionally when a debate does accidentally break out, some posters here are quick to squelch it - out of fear perhaps that it might become a habit and destroy the tenuous comity you've built up here.
Look, I get it. The forum's evolved. A lot of people here have always had different inclinations that caused them to shy away from debate. You've all gotten older and less interested in anything that resembles confrontation. You prefer hanging out with people online who you only vaguely know from some get-togethers every other year that only a handful of you attend on a regular basis, but who you know are kind and never tease you about your harelip.
So why don't you say so? Stop pretending that I'm some ogre who undermines debate when you know damn well that's not true. 27468. arkymalarky - 7/1/2013 3:16:59 AM post something of substance to debate. I dare you. you're content averse and you always have been. None of us have forgotten. 27469. arkymalarky - 7/1/2013 3:23:44 AM there are plenty of dead forums on the internet. Some in which the participants have moved on to other things, some in which the same old people say the same old shit over and over and over ad nauseum. 27470. PincherMartin - 7/1/2013 3:32:19 AM "post something of substance to debate."
I have, Arky.
I posted some substantive stuff about LBGT politics and sex/gender in the discussion sparked by ibby's comment about the so-called six-year-old transgender boy.
It's just that most of you are so offended by either my tone or my ideas (and probably both) that you assume I'm not serious and so can't possibly not substantive.
But that's malarky. I can be both insulting and full of content. There's no contradiction there. And I can be a good sport when I'm insulted in turn, so it's not as if I'm asking for special treatment. Only stupidity turns me off.
I also posted about my bet with Alistair. I thought one of you might follow my links to the discussion with Alistair - which is better than anything I've seen here recently - and comment on some aspect of it. There's a lot there: the quality of expert predictions; energy prices, peak oil, currency exchange, etc.
But none of you did. Not one. 27471. PincherMartin - 7/1/2013 3:34:25 AM "there are plenty of dead forums on the internet. Some in which the participants have moved on to other things, some in which the same old people say the same old shit over and over and over ad nauseum."
If you think I've been saying the same shit over and over again, you clearly haven't been reading me over the last half-dozen years.
That's fine. You have better things to do. But don't pretend you know the score when you're not watching the game. 27472. judithathome - 7/1/2013 3:45:38 AM I can be both insulting and full of content.
Just as you can be insulting and full of shit.
Look, no one wants to discuss things with someone who is calling them names. I know that's SOP at TPW but it's not like that everywhere.
I didn't follow your links because frankly, I'm not up on the price of oil or the exchange rates of the EU. And really don't care about either one.
I've had a lot of things happen to me in the last few years and it's made me somewhat jaded about what is important in my life and to my life and what is not...I consider it a good day when the sun comes up without some grime personal news.
So yeah, I don't get very deep into discussions and don't debate and couldn't care less what goes on...if that makes me shallow, so be it. I can get through the day just fine without Facebook or Twitter...or earthshaking, soul-searching fact tossing. 27473. arkymalarky - 7/1/2013 3:55:16 AM PM is a bore, plain and simple. He lacked a valid point in his "gender debate" so he went with provocatively calling children who have gender identification issues "mistakes." His tactics are vacuous and tedious and bereft of any complexity. What were you positing for discussion? That some children should be written off as "mistakes"? Were you presenting the benefits of eugenics? In short, what was your point? That question would never be asked of a competent debater. 27474. arkymalarky - 7/1/2013 3:57:47 AM "Only stupidity turns me off."
Hahaha! 27475. PincherMartin - 7/1/2013 4:39:13 AM Judith,
"Look, no one wants to discuss things with someone who is calling them names. I know that's SOP at TPW but it's not like that everywhere."
You guys don't seem to have any problems calling people names over here. I've been called all of the following over the last several days - sometimes by people I never even addressed in my posts, and frequently by posters I'd not called a name.
Clown.
Asshole.
Degenerate.
Fucking asshole moron knob.
Fucking asshole moron fuckwit.
Rabid chimp.
Rush Limbaugh.
PMS.
Baboon (including various junior members of baboon brigades).
Douche.
Troll.
Monkey boy.
*****
I'm not complaining. Bhel, for example, is much more interesting to read when he's directly insulting me than when he's sadly reminiscing about the grown-up atmosphere of this place that he implies I'm polluting.
But please get off your high horse about the elevated tone you people prefer here, Judith. Von Kreedon came in here from presiding over his Ace of Spades fan club to call me a troll and then left without a goodbye. You can call me a troll, Judith, but von Kreedon lost that moral right when he shacked up with Ace.
27476. PincherMartin - 7/1/2013 4:43:32 AM Judith,
"I've had a lot of things happen to me in the last few years and it's made me somewhat jaded about what is important in my life and to my life and what is not...I consider it a good day when the sun comes up without some grime personal news."
I'm sorry to hear it. But I don't remember calling you a name. It's possible I've forgotten something. But I think I've just been kidding you with a pretty light touch. 27477. judithathome - 7/1/2013 4:48:13 AM I don't give a good goddamn who calls whom what. It's tiring, frankly, and if I recall correctly, I haven't called you any names.
What I was trying to say was...I have real life things that are much more important to me than anything I read on-line. Things that have put the world in a certain perspective for me.
From that perspective, I'd rather not see people acting like boors...that's all. I may be guilty of being boring and light-weight but trust me, that opinon matters not one whit to me. I'm just glad I wake up every day.
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